Those Beautiful Mess

 I can imagine how hard it is being a grown-up,

 and how scary it is for being responsible for everything we do,

and every move we make, and yet you're doing so well.  

You're doing it incredibly, and it takes courage to become a grown-up. 

Good job, my girl.  I just want to remind you that self-critics doesn't help anything. 

 Only when you appreciate yourself and recognize your hard work, you can start to shine. 

I believe in you, and it takes a lot to go back home and start over and build a new life after so many years living abroad.  

Most importantly, you have to recognize that and learn to believe in you. 

It doesn't mean that you won't expereince difficulties, hardship, challenges, failures, and doubts,

but it means that no matter what you go through you will still hold your head high,

knowing that it's no big deal if you make mistakes as long as you're willing to learn from it. 

we all make mistakes, and no one in the world is perfect. 

 Really, you don't need to be perfect because you're perfect as who you are. 

It's more important to learn who you are and accept who you are. 

We can grow and improve more when we have peace of mind. 

Try to learn not to criticize yourself because you will learn nothing from it. 

This is the most important lessen I've ever learned in life and I'm still working on it. 

Share with you.

From dearest Lanny